Around Annabella's first birthday, I started to get questions about whether or not we'd have another child. Let's just say that I had a difficult time with that question. I had a hard time understanding how people could ask us that, knowing Annabella's story. I wasn't mad, mind you, simply confused. My standard answer was usually a blank stare followed by some stammering recount of what we'd been through. They usually changed the subject. (more...)